Dear Boudoir Diary,
I work for a large company that always has it’s share of drama between employees but for the most part I stay away from it all. There’s this guy in my department who seemed really cool at first but after getting friendly with him, he started to hit on me. I was never interested in him that way. Plus I have a rule about fraternizing with coworkers. Trouble is that his girlfriend works for the same company in another department.
I got to know her through him and started to develop a crush on her instead. After rejecting her boyfriend’s advances a few times, one day he mentioned that she thinks I’m attractive too and they talked about wanting to hook up with me together. I am not attracted to this man at all. But I am curious to have the experience with his girlfriend. There is a part of me that also wants to tell her how he was coming on to me before she even knew about it. Part of me wants to tell her so she can break up with him and leave him for me. Should I just go with the flow and have fun with them as a couple? Should I tell her everything her man was trying to do secretly and convince her to be with me instead? Or should I tell them both to fuck off and not get involved at all? Please help.
A weary work wife