I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 7 years now, off and on. I started to notice a few years ago that I wasn’t so attracted to him anymore like in the beginning. We would have our issues and take a break from each other.
When we got back together, I felt passionate about him again, like I wanted to do it all the time. Now it seems like we only have sex after an argument, otherwise we are just like homies who live together. Sometimes I think he starts arguments just so we can have make up sex because its been weeks. Is this a bad thing? Is there a way to rebuild my attraction to him so it doesn’t have to be make up sex all the time? What do y’all think?