I’m a 21 year old virgin. For some background, my fiance and I met in the same church our families have been members at our whole lives. He is a great man who is very loving, kind and affectionate. We had our first huge fight after a discussion about our sexual history one night.
Even though I never had sexual intercourse, I admitted to giving oral to two guys I dated in high school and college. He instantly got upset and tried to tell me I wasn’t the pure girl he thought he knew. I told him he was being a hypocrite because he has went down on me multiple times and I even gave him hand jobs. He’s threatening to call off our wedding and says he’s disgusted with me. We had planned on going to the free marriage counseling offered by our pastor anyway. Is this something we should bring up in counseling with our pastor?