Cunnilingus Conundrum

My husband gives the WORST head ever. He’s rough with his fingers and when I try to guide him, it makes everything more painful. Honestly I’d rather he just have sex with me because I get way more pleasure from penetration than I EVER do from receiving head. I have tried to talk about it but it seems like everything I say goes right out the window once we become intimate. I enjoy giving him head and pleasing him. I’d rather do it to him than have him do it to me and it is a bit frustrating. I yearn for oral pleasure like any woman but I just don’t get any pleasure from it with him. I don’t know what to do.

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  1. This is tough but I feel like you have a few options here. You could try again at coaching him to eat it better. I suggest finding a good porn video that demonstrates how you like it. He might be more open visual stimulation instead of dictation. You should still have conversations about your sexual needs in that respect. If he still fails at it then you would be right to just tell him don’t bother. Substitute with a vibrator maybe beforehand and have him join you as foreplay.

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