I was in a 12 year relationship with a guy. We started discussing our future and getting married. I guess he wanted to get EVERYTHING off his chest…so he confessed that he found out (6 most prior to telling me) that he had a 10 year old child. I was devastated. Sent him a “FU” text a d moved on…4 years later, cleaning out my phone, I text him and told him I was deleting him. He immediately responded for me not to. We talked and I find out he had another kid 2 years ago. We both have feelings…I’m open to keeping him in rotation (I’m currently SUPER single and dating)…but I kinda wanna see him still..but I can’t help keeping my guard COMPLETELY up….thoughts…?