I love sex when we’re in the middle of it. But the initial getting turned on part I dread. I try to do anything to get out of having sex because I hate the first 10-20 minutes of kissing/small things that lead up to foreplay and sex.
I’ve been with my partner for over a year and I’m attracted to him, very comfortable, and the sex itself is great. But it’s just that first part I don’t know how to enjoy, because I’m always trying to find a way out of it.