When I was in college I was in a When I was in college I was in an on and off relationship with this guy for about 5 years. The relationship was very toxic, but the sex was AMAZING! Amazing like pop up in his house unannounced if we were fighting and calling his friends to see where he was. I was crazy about the sex!
So after I graduated I was finally able to leave him alone because I moved back to my hometown. I met my current boyfriend that I’ve been dating for 2 years and it’s been really cool, but the sex isn’t all that at all. The most frustrating part is he doesn’t get hard easily so I have to continuously give him head while we’re having sex to keep us going. At first I didn’t mind but now it feels like a chore while having sex. I keep thinking about how great my exes sex was and sometimes while I’m having sex with my current boyfriend. I know he’s attracted to me because he initiates the sex and is crazy about me, but the sex isn’t that great. We even bought a dildo that he uses on me when he can’t get hard because I told him of my displeasure. It’s nice but I’m starting to not be attracted to him because I know what great, sweaty, going multiple rounds a night feels like. What should I do?