Sooo… earlier this year I lost my virginity. I’m 24 years old and I was just ready to experience sex. Lost it rather quickly to a guy I had been talking to for like a month but it led to a 8 month relationship, which was cool. Our sex life was pretty good and we were very open with each other other. Fast forward, I’m single now and so I’ve been casually dating. I’m not ready for the emotional weight load of a relationship, but I want to explore more in terms of my sexuality. Problem is….
I’ve had sex with a few guys and and it seems like they switch up almost immediately. Am I the problem? Or is this normally how men act after sex? I’m a pretty confident person and I feel like this is starting to mess with my self-esteem a bit. Men have always treated me well and I’m used to them laboring for me. So I’m questioning if I’m giving them bad sex or if it’s something to do with me that they’re not disclosing and idek why considering all I WANT is sex! (And maybe a little attention)