Alright I just feel I need to give a little background on my question. I started using contraceptives at a vital point during puberty, at the age of 17. The problem was I would go on my period for maybe 3 “normal” days and then spot for 2 days. I told my mom this and it worried her and we went to a Dr and prescribed depo. I don’t know why exactly. So I wouldn’t be on my period for 3 months and around then I started having sex. I would get orgasms, but I also didn’t get wet (I used lube). So eventually I got off that contraceptive after a year and moved to the pill, then stopped all together. At age 23 I fell pregnant twice and had an abortion both times.
Two different Dr’s, I felt like I couldn’t go back to my first one because he might judge me. The second abortion was the most brutal thing ever, I bleed for 2 weeks at least. Horrible cramps. Just a horror movie. So after that I always felt like my libido took a dive and I don’t get as wet as I used prior the second abortion. The desire is always there, but down there feels like a different world. Even after my second orgasm I get dry pretty quickly, it’s frustrating for me. Yes, I do use lube, but I want copious amounts of it and my partner’s are just not into that. Lol! Yeah, I need help with increasing my libido and increasing moisture down there.