Most of the time during sex I notice I can get somewhat sweaty between my rear, even a little while after a shower. I wouldn’t say it smells bad, but i think its unpleasant. It’s so embarrassing to smell like sweat back there and notice after having sex. My boyfriend hasn’t mentioned it, maybe to spare my feelings.
If you have sex with someone because you’re scared even if you didn’t say no, is it still abuse?
Dear Boudoir, I would like your take on dating outside of your race. Even though I have never dated or been in a relationship, I feel conflicted about dating outside of my race. I’m a dark skin black girl. I’m pro-black…
My boyfriend & I have been trying to introduce anal into our sex life but it hasn’t been successful.
Just some background to my question, I’m not sure if my story fits but here goes. I lost my virginity at 17 and kept that partner until I was 19(I’m now turning 20 in the summer). I frequently went to the doctor because of other problems that existed before I started having sex. I tested clean every time.
Hey Boudoir, I’m about to be 22, in college about to graduate and never had a boyfriend or sex before. It makes me slight nervous because it seems to be what alot of people my age is concerned about. But what advice do you have about my situation or for me when I do get a boyfriend and become intimate. Thank you
Dear Boudoir Diary, You would think that after five years of great sex with my partner that we’d have each other figured out by now, but recently he told me that he likes a bit of aggression in bed and that’s why our sex life has been stagnant.
HELP! OMG what’s wrong with me!? I have a man who I really do love and have been with him for years. However, sometimes I sneak and geek with one of my toxic exs like a oil change every couple of months but I feel bad cause my man don’t deserve that. So I invested in sex toys recently but my man is now upset about it is something wrong with me?
Alright I just feel I need to give a little background on my question. I started using contraceptives at a vital point during puberty, at the age of 17. The problem was I would go on my period for maybe 3 “normal” days and then spot for 2 days. I told my mom this and it worried her and we went to a Dr and prescribed depo. I don’t know why exactly. So I wouldn’t be on my period for 3 months and around then I started having sex. I would get orgasms, but I also didn’t get wet (I used lube). So eventually I got off that contraceptive after a year and moved to the pill, then stopped all together. At age 23 I fell pregnant twice and had an abortion both times.
Hi. My boyfriend and I waited 7 years to finally have sex. Since we are getting married in a few months we decided we would do it soon. I have not had sex before and it will be my first time. I’m not worried but I have been looking forward to this day for a long time.